Embracing Life’s Transitions: From Words to Waves, Beats to Flavors
Life is a journey of transitions—some planned, others unexpected, but all essential in shaping who we become. We often start with a vision, a dream that feels like our true calling, only to find that life has a way of redirecting us toward something even greater.
I began as a writer, eager to share my adventures, my thoughts, and my dreams through words. Writing was my sanctuary, my way of expressing the world as I saw it. I imagined a future filled with stories, books, and endless pages of creativity. But life had other plans.
The Shift to Talk Radio: Finding My Voice
Before the world called it podcasting, I found myself drawn into the realm of talk radio. What started as a passion for storytelling evolved into conversations, interviews, and discussions that connected me with people in ways I had never imagined.
Writing had been a solitary craft, but radio was alive—it was immediate, engaging, and dynamic. I learned the power of voice, the art of conversation, and the ability to inspire through spoken words. It was a transition that taught me that storytelling wasn’t confined to the written page—it could be heard, felt, and experienced in real time.
Mr. Black Tie: Entertaining the Entertainers
Then came another unexpected turn—DJing on the Vegas Strip. But I wasn’t just any DJ. As Mr. Black Tie, I became the DJ who entertained the entertainers, curating soundscapes for the very people who shaped the nightlife and entertainment industry.
Vegas was a world of spectacle, of high energy, of endless motion. Behind the turntables, I learned how to move crowds, how to read the room, and how to create an atmosphere that people would remember. But more than that, I learned to see the world through my Black lens—to understand the nuances of culture, identity, and the power of representation in spaces where few expected it.
DJing wasn’t just about music; it was about presence. It was about commanding a space, about knowing when to amplify a moment and when to let the rhythm speak for itself. It was a transition that taught me rhythm—not just in music, but in life. The ability to adapt, to flow with the moment, and to understand that every beat, every pause, and every shift had a purpose.
The Kitchen: A Culinary Transformation
And now, I stand in the kitchen—a chef, crafting flavors instead of sentences, curating experiences instead of playlists. Cooking is storytelling in its own way. Every dish carries a narrative, every ingredient has a history, and every meal is an opportunity to connect with people on a deeper level.
Thanks to God, I have found that everything I’ve learned—writing, speaking, music—has led me to this moment. The creativity of writing, the engagement of radio, the rhythm of DJing—all of it now lives in the dishes I create and the stories I share on The Freedom Mercado.
The Power of Transitions
Transitions are not endings; they are evolutions. They teach us resilience, adaptability, and the beauty of reinvention. When we embrace change, we discover that every experience—no matter how different—can be woven into our purpose.
Each chapter of my life has been a lesson:
- Writing taught me expression.
- Radio taught me connection.
- DJing taught me rhythm and perspective.
- Becoming a Chef taught me creation.
And through it all, I’ve learned that life isn’t about staying in one place. It’s about moving forward, embracing the journey, and finding freedom in every transition.
So, to anyone standing at the crossroads of change, wondering if they should take the leap—do it. Trust that every step, every twist, and every unexpected turn is leading you somewhere meaningful.
